You know. Not having an obligation to another human being inside of an intimate relationship is a blessing if you are a loner and introvert.
I suppose being an outgoing introvert certainly causes me a lot of trouble. I appear to be outgoing BUT I'm really draining my batteries.
*Sigh* dating in this world is always available but rarely if ever what I want.
I found someone who is completely right for me over the summer only to (Well this is absolute) know that I'm not attracted to this person enough.
I'm shallow. At least that is my spin on the matter. I know I'm not shallow but when it comes to having a mate I would like to be wildly attracted to them and unfortunately I am not....
Crap! So I let her go and took the blame on myself for not being ready.
On to the next.....
Peace be with you,
Bobby
I understand how you feel about the conundrum of being an "outgoing introvert". Ditto for me, too. When the right person comes along, IF the right person comes along, you'll know it. And if she doesn't come along, enjoy where you are and be grateful you didn't try forcing a square peg through a round hole. That will never be a good fit. You're a good man, Bobby. Just be yourself, even if that means taking a hiatus from being uncomfortably/unnaturally (?) outgoing. You're cool. :)
ReplyDeletesame for me......I would like to meet someone new but in a wheel chair that's difficult *sigh*
ReplyDeleteI just plain decided at my age. No, just no. Peace is a wonderful thing. It is like swimming in warm waters in the nude. Free.
ReplyDeleteI was re-reading my old posts and found a link here. I missed your comeback and now you're gone again. I hope you're well.
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